To think outside the box, you need to forget the box. Its similar too completely "feeling" a song all on your own, you got to listen to the radio, because on TV the video might be a screwed up the marketing honchos came up with for the production guys, totally irrelevant to the song . On radio, what you think and hear is what you feel and then the sparrow starts squealing like a freaked out deer.what nonsense?!!.Books are good. The next best thing to do than reading a book you don't like reading is collecting imaginary globules of air different people have breathed and labeling them according to how much you like or hate them. I'm the biggest idiot in the world. After god.And after you, obviously.